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The one thing that surprised me the most about myself, that I learned what others think, is that I am a people pleaser. I want everyone to be happy, I hate drama and confrontation. I like to communicate with others and make sure that everyone is okay. Being a people pleaser has good and bad to it. When in a workplace, if you hold a high position, you can't always please everyone. You have to be able to say no and stick to what you say. Now how I evaluate myself as a communicator, I love to speak in public, I love to listen and see if I can come up with solutions, for those who need help with things. I believe that communication is the key.I use these tools within the work place and in my personal life.

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